NZ GENERAL 10 RE DESCRIBING THE PARTIES IN A DE FACTO MARRIAGE
From: hugh@no-spam (Hugh Young)
Subject: Re: Describing the parties in a de facto marriage.
Date: Sun, 29 Jun 2003 09:27:15 GMT


On Sat, 28 Jun 2003 20:19:52 -0600, Luthien <luthien@no-spam>
said:

>moral code wrote:
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>> "Lennier" <nospam@no-spam> wrote in message >> news:pan.2003.06.28.12.55.51.961746@no-spam >> >>>On Sun, 29 Jun 2003 00:17:07 +1200, moral code wrote:
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>>>>A man and woman of full age and fully understanding the implications,
>>>>responsibilities and expectations of their decision, solemnise their >>>>relationship before witnesses, and being prepared to found a family,
>>>>
>> bear >> >>>>testimony to this fact at the temple/church/synagogue,
>>>>
>>>LOL - the FACT that the majority of persons do not get married in a >>>"temple/church/synagogue" seems to have escaped you.
>>>
>>>In other words, you are speaking a theory that is total bullshit!
>>>
>> >> No, I am speaking about REAL marriage - the religious ceremony upon which >> the secular humanists have taken a liking to, and have come up with a Civil >> Union ceremony equivalent that they also call "marriage".

Your first definition never says "religious". If I understand you correctly, any pair of unbelievers could get married in Old St Pauls (which anyone may hire) and be married in your eyes, while a religious couple would be living in sin if they got the Archbishop of Canterbury and/or the Pope to marry them in St Peters Square. Sounds like something you'd shovel to me.
>> I don't know why the secular humanists have taken a liking to this >> particular religious ceremony (particularly the insistance from homophiles >> to join in) - perhaps they don't want to feel like they are being left out -
>> wannabes perhaps?

Perhaps it's got nothing whatsoever to do with your lot and everything to do with how they feel about each other and their life together.